1. Recognize your child's feelings.

• "I understand why that makes you upset."
  
• "It's hard to wait turns, isn't it."

2. Model a different way to behave.

• "Next time you lose, say to yourself, "I can't win every time-maybe I will the next time.'"
  
• Tell about a similar situation when you were a child, and what you did.

• "Remember, while you wait your turn, watch the others to see what you can learn from them."
  
• "I bet you will remember to keep trying even if you don't hit the ball every time."

4. Observe and praise your child for her accomplishments.

• "I saw how you kept trying. Aren't you proud of yourself?"
  
• "You were probably disappointed when your team didn't win, but you didn't get mad-good for you!"